long gap since i posted my previous thoughts - this is somewhat like a open diary - usually diary is considered to be a secret one one's thought to oneself - this types of blogs are secretes - open secretes. ok. the word love is used in many senses. it has its world of meanings. but what is true love. many answers are forthcoming. but i couldnt find one satisfying. is showing kindness is one kind of love? or one developes into it. mostly it seems the younger generations do not like love from their parents they think it as more of a hinderance than affection.they think love from their friends is the true one and it is indespensable. are they correct? whether love is receiprocating or giving only. may be the love of parents is giving only not to expect anything from the children but from the children is receiprocating. their view will certainly differ. but as far as i am concerned the love from loved ones is one of sacrifice. we can go to any length to satisfy ourselves and our children. but do they. let me continue