it seems what are all that come to our minds .. that cross our mind could not be brought to paper. but a trickle is what we do in our blogs. everyone has his own dreams but mostly it was like a tamil saying oomai kanavu kandal. most of the people dont express. they dont understand that any baby born is not walking the next day. it will try to sit, stand,crawl and then only it walks. so much effort. but some of our younger generation do not try to speak out. they dont even try. they keep themselves in the nutshell. what for? when will they understand. when a baby makes so much of an effort why can't they. it is pathetic to see so many talent is wasted. they may be academically strong but when coming to expression they are way behind. what to make they come into the open. any takers...........?

long gap since i posted my previous thoughts - this is somewhat like a open diary - usually diary is considered to be a secret one one's thought to oneself - this types of blogs are secretes - open secretes. ok. the word love is used in many senses. it has its world of meanings. but what is true love. many answers are forthcoming. but i couldnt find one satisfying. is showing kindness is one kind of love? or one developes into it. mostly it seems the younger generations do not like love from their parents they think it as more of a hinderance than affection.they think love from their friends is the true one and it is indespensable. are they correct? whether love is receiprocating or giving only. may be the love of parents is giving only not to expect anything from the children but from the children is receiprocating. their view will certainly differ. but as far as i am concerned the love from loved ones is one of sacrifice. we can go to any length to satisfy ourselves and our children. but do they. let me continue

a small question

first of all i want to have few words about myself.   i am called as a sentimental fool by myself and my son.  i cant control being emotional even while reading books or seeing a movie or even a drama. i can withstand anything done to me against me but couldnt bear any good done to me ie i coulnt wait to show my gratitute.  whether i am overreacting or most of the people are like me i want to know just that. can anybody help me