just want to know what is happiness?????????

one's happiness may be another man's sorrow vice verse. but the real happiness lies where?

nowadays most of the people don't laugh they only smile

now the world contains more introverts so they keep their emotions to themselves - so no sharing and no more laughing

everyone is selfish to the core so that they only speak when they think they will get something in return. so without applying heart they apply only mind. happiness won't come from mind.
you might have seen most children smile constantly - there is no good or bad for them - so they smile and remain happy. now some thought intrigue me - what is the difference from living happily and living joyfully.
whether it is living carelessly or enjoying life.
i heard sometime back ie for a wife to enter into her husband's heart is through his stomach. likewise happiness helps you to enter into anybody's heart. it is contagious. so try to make everyone happy and keep smiling.

what is better than life?

life - it is the one word that has so many meanings. from amoeba to human everyone has its form of life. most of the time we spend it without any purpose and when we look back it is a huge vacuum with no worthwhile part to be proud of . so what is the use of leading a so unmeaningful (i dont know whether it is a correct way of saying it) a life. after so many years of waste shall i lead a meaningful life at least from now on. can i? only a few have the ability to preview their life and lead it others live it as it is. so it seems that we do not lead a life but mostly follow it. to lead a life we have to love it, enjoy it and live it and make others enjoy it live it and love it. so to live a life is better than life - for the time being

on top of the musical world

yesterday was a happy day for me as well as most of the Indians. one among us conquered the music world and got two oscars for his spell bounding music. our heart goes out to him. it was a moment of joy and happiness. i had some doubt whether an Indian will be given that highest honour but it happened. thank you for anyone and everyone who made it possible. congratulation's to you mr a r rahman who also made our beloved tamil language vibrate in the western world. we all wept with joy. thank you oscar for making us proud of ourselves

changing relationship

every child born in this world is bound to have its own feelings. but the transformation of love and affection it shows is amazing. to me it is intriguing. let the child may be a girl or a boy it is loved by its parents ........mostly. but as the time passes the child developes some intimacy either with father or mother. it sometimes lead to the envy of ther other parent. as time passes and the child grow it comes across friends with whom it shares it feelings a gap developes with the relationship the child has with its parent. then some child come across someone with whom love deveopes the gap still increases. then marriage and children for them and the cycle starts onceagain. i always think that the love between the child and the parent always remain the same. but the mind of the parent always think that they are loosing their hold on the children once it developes friendship and love. i couldnt enter into the mind of the younger generation but just want to know the answer

a period of waiting

whenever i have time i think only of love and friendship. nothing comes marching in. but why not think a little about service to others. service -- i don't have much idea about service done by people like mother theresa or sri baba amte. i have read articles about them and wondered whether i can be capable of doing service to others. it is my life's dream to be of service to others. but i do know that still i am not prepared for it either mentally or financially. so i tried to do some service a little to start with. first i try not to ignore people even their requirements are very small. try to concentrate in small things and hope that ll lead to big things one day. service with a smile is a beautiful concept. but how many of us follow. i always have that longing and am always praying god to give me strength physically, mentally and financially to do that. let that thought blossom soon.

to-day a thought crossed my mind. usually people return what they get. when we give them hatred they give it back. when we give love they return it. so why not spread the goodness of love so that we as well as the people surrounding us be happy. usually we keep love for ourselves - for our kith and kin and don't share with others. why is it always like this? when we spread the thought of love it spreads and the same come back to us. you may ask why should i . let me be happy. why entertain others. when we spread love the whole atmosphere is filled with love. happiness descends and there is joy everywhere. wont you like it - to see faces with smiles. it will be like seeing fresh flowers with fragrance. so to-day itself start within your family and then your neighbourhood and see the difference - good luck

it seems what are all that come to our minds .. that cross our mind could not be brought to paper. but a trickle is what we do in our blogs. everyone has his own dreams but mostly it was like a tamil saying oomai kanavu kandal. most of the people dont express. they dont understand that any baby born is not walking the next day. it will try to sit, stand,crawl and then only it walks. so much effort. but some of our younger generation do not try to speak out. they dont even try. they keep themselves in the nutshell. what for? when will they understand. when a baby makes so much of an effort why can't they. it is pathetic to see so many talent is wasted. they may be academically strong but when coming to expression they are way behind. what to make they come into the open. any takers...........?